Elegy to Cookie Wookie
(by Clara Hsu, April 23, 2013)
Before you appeared
in my vicinity, I dreamed---
a pair of white, well shaped feet
peeking under a sage cloak
each toe inspired poetry.
The face was shrouded,
except for two cat eyes
intent on an object it placed in my hand.
Today my white bathrobe
worn from clingy nails
became your shroud.
Seven years of guarding.
Seven years of purrs.
Each morning
green eyes and snaggletooth.
Each night
a dainty ginger flower.
The April sun
has warmed the soil
in the lily garden.
A blade of weed
among the burial callas.
My eyes are painted
like an Egyptian princess.
I tread soundlessly from room to room---
a kungfu master would never
reveal the depth of her skill.
White stones
for the color of your paws
brown stones
for the markings on your back,
the Sahara and its black sand
after sunset.
What takes us away from this earth
is neither old age nor diseases
but a lack of intention.
If the intention remains
then we’re never taken away.
You had placed in my hand
the entire universe
even though I could not read
your mystery.
Cookie-Wookie Listener Email
Excerpts
(after hearing April 20 Cookie Tribute on Tangents)
I
want to tell you how sorry I am to hear about Cookie's
diagnosis/prognosis. At your Turkey pot-luck last December, she happily
climbed from lap to lap, inviting everyone -- total strangers! --
to
pet her. She's the sweetest, friendliest cat I've ever met, and
her warm welcome reflected the warm welcome extended to each of us by
you and Clara.
I
know that you will miss her.
Sheila
Hi Dore
Nancy
and I were both moved and saddened to hear your tribute to Cookie last
night Great
job and beautiful music and Clara's poem with the shak was a fitting
ceremony Nancy
has great memories of Cookie on her lap too.
Best
to you both and Cookie
Rob
Oh Dore, I am so sad to hear about the Cookie-Wookie.
I still remember sleeping with all three kids
each cuddled up with me in a different spot. How
blessed to have spend such loved time with you and Clara for her.
Great to hear about your routines..I
hold you all in my heart, dear ones!
Bibi
Sending our best to you, Clara and Cookie Wookie
It's
not easy to let go - but as you know, we can offer our never-ending,
loving compassion and respect for the furry ones who enter our
lives. Thank you for your love of Cookie Wookie.
peace,
Julene, Tom, Mango, Bunny (the cat) and Bella
And now I've heard about Cookie...I'm so sorry
to hear about her (especially so soon after Petey), but
heartened to hear you are giving her hospice. Thanks for the tribute,
she sounds like a spirited and soulful
cat. I know she will feel the love from you and Clara during these
difficult days.
Robin
I love the way you love your cats.
and what you go through breaks my heart....only meaning how wonderfully
special your cool cats are. and I love how you bravely share such
personal stories of them. Oh, so sweet.
xoxo
Jen
I am so sorry to hear that your cat is not doing
well. Our cat, Opal has cancer too. We
too are doing what we can for her as you are caring for your cat,
Cookie. We
love our cats and we cherish the time we share with them.
Dan
My
heart goes out to you and Clara and Cookie-Wookie. We lost 2 cats last
year and know how heartbreaking it is. I wish for all of Cookie's
remaining days to be filled with love, comfort, and good music.
Thanks again for all you do. It means the world to us.
Best,
Shari
I'm very sorry to hear Cookie passed. The next time I listen to Tangents I'll hold up a taste
of my best scotch and toast to her life.
jeff
Prayers
for you caring for your cookie cat.
So hard to know the right thing to do for your cat.
My
cat has been weakening, but eating. and purring. In her old age i felt
like hospice care has been the last year or so of her life with me.
My kitty also had stopped eating very much and her frail condition got
weaker. she still made the rounds finding the sunshine in the house
i had the wandering vet come to my house yesterday.
He examined her. found a stomach/gi tumor also....learned that the
murmuring sounds she made were moans of pain.
so, as an act of kindness,
i let him put her down. yesterday.
Bonita Cohn
she was 20 something.
Sorry
to hear about Cookie's condition. We'll be thinking about Her and
hope
she is as comfortable as possible. You and
Clara hang in there.
John R
Thank you for your memorialization of Cookie.
Strength, and courage.
Nik M.
Hi.
I was very moved by your tribute to Cookie, which I just now listened
to on KALW's Local Music Player. I hope her passing goes as painlessly,
for all of you, as possible.
Henry
Dear Dore & Clara--
My heart is with you. Anyone who thinks animals
don't share our feelings just hasn't lived
with one. Not really.
The Wookie sounds like a truly amazing kitty.
I'm so, so sorry you'll lose her too soon.
I know you'll give her the absolute BESTEST time
ever for the days she has left. Keep her
out of pain & on your laps, close to your heartbeats. Maybe she
considers that soundyour
'purr.'
I've lost a number of wondrous animal pals over
the years. They just don't have the samelife
span we do. That TOTALLY sucks, but there it is. You two have been the
best parentspossible,
I'm sure.
I have always felt that the finest
compliment I could give to a recently deceased petwas
to fill the awful hole in my life with another loving creature. You
cannot think of thisyet,
I know. Your life is centered on Cookie now.
But soon enough, it will not be. There is no
reason to remain sad & miserable for weeks or
months. Would that make sense to The Cookie? Probably not. She wants
you to be happy.
Plus, your other kitty (kitties?) needs a buddy.
This is why it is always important to have two
cats or dogs or chickens or ferrets. They remind
you to keep all the pets you need in your life.
I hope I have not been too forward by writing
all of this. But you were so wonderfully honest
this evening about your sadness at losing Cookie that I wanted to offer
what comfort
I could.
Thank you for sharing your sorrows with us. It
helps everyone.
L&K, Mary Brady
Hi Dore:
Just
a note to say I'm listening live and you brought tears to my eyes with
your sad tale of Cookie. I too had a beloved cat, Yasou, from 1976 to
1990 when I left San Rafael for the peregrinations that ultimately
landed me in Thailand. She moved with me from San Francisco to Albany
to Mill Valley to San Rafael and after I left, she spent the last 3
years of her life with my neighbors who'd always looked after her when
I was out and about. She suffered from nothing but advanced years and
arthritis but one rainy December evening she, like Petey, went out into
the backyard to die alone.
You
reminded me yet again that I've been dreaming of having a cat again for
several years now, yet must balance this strong desire with the
unsuitability of the wacky riverside pad I've called home for 15 years
as a cat pad. Then there's the difficulty of finding anywhere in
Bangkok with enough land around to let a cat wander about safely and
live an indoor/outdoor life.
I'm
not much of a kid person, never having had any of my own. I see how the
cats are your and Clara's pets/friends/children and realize how much I
need that in my life right now.
Anyhow,
just to say I sympathize with the pain and sadness of losing another
beloved cat too soon after Petey's demise and thank you for nudging me
about my own heart's desires at this point in my life.
Big
hugs and love to you and thank you as always for your absolutely
incredible program.
xoxoxox
Jennifer